Thoughtful Momma Monday
Good Monday to you! I hope that your weekend was productive and enjoyable! Mine sure was... I hope to share the amazing feat that we accomplished this weekend with you soon!
I'm sure you have heard of having
dates with Daddy, but in case you haven't
(or have never experienced one) here are a few of my personal memories, some ideas for your family, and what my little girl looks forward to!
Mo Bear and Daddy, ready to go on a date.
In my family there was one daddy and three ladies who needed to go on dates. Once a month
(when possible) my dad would take each of his girls on a date. So, he got to go on three dates a month while we each got to go on one. I guess that's fair, since he worked hard to pay for those dates :o)
I always looked forward to my Daddy Date! Some of my favorite date spots were: the mall, the pet store, and the ice cream parlor. It was a few hours of undivided attention from my daddy. A time we could talk about our favorite things and how our week was going. Those dates together were so special.
A special date night treat!
What little girl (or big girl for that matter) doesn't want attention? Someone to listen to her thoughts and share in her dreams? They all do! My little girl, who will be three in January, carefully picked out her princess outfit and shoes
(she had to wear her pink sparkle sandals). She let me do her hair, adding a bow and hairspray, and wore Momma's special necklace - all to get ready for her date with Daddy.
She wanted to look her best and bring joy to her daddy's heart. And I know that she did!
How about the little ones in your life? Dates aren't just for Daddies and Daughters - that was and has been my experience so far. One day though, my son will need to learn how to open the car door for a lady and carry on polite conversation. Until all those manners are taught and smoothed out, I get to teach him by example.
A date is a chance to listen to our children's hearts and to model how to properly treat the opposite sex. How will they learn if they are not taught?
Date night doesn't need to break the bank... it can be simple.
The goal is to spend time together having fun!
All those quarters in her little bag in the top picture were saved so
she could ride the kiddie rides at our local outlet mall!
Simple yet fun!
Daddy Date Ideas on a Budget:
- Feed the ducks stale bread at a local pond - walk and talk
- Go for a bike ride then stop for a cold soda on the way home
- Visit a pet store to look at the animals and talk about your favorite childhood pet
- Go to a matinee movie and enjoy some popcorn together
- Pack a simple lunch and head to the park for some fun
- See a play put on my a local church or children's theater group
- Enjoy a game of miniature golf
- Take a hike together - keep track of the various animals or birds you spot
- Go out for donuts on a Saturday morning
As moms, it's our joy to
encourage our husbands to take our girls on dates. They may need ideas or the free time to do it. And don't forget to take some time for Mommy/Daddy dates too! Those are the best kind!
Me and my handsome hubby on a fun date!
I hope this encourages you and your family to start a new date night tradition or keep up the one you have!
God bless you and your family this week,